Bourne Mansion - Oakdale, New York

Melanie M.

We couldn't have asked for a more perfect venue than Bourne! From the stunning atmosphere to the impeccable service, our experience was truly unforgettable. Our guests are still raving about how beautiful the venue was and how delicious the food was!

A huge shoutout to Miriam, who was incredibly helpful from start to finish. She guided us every step of the way, making sure every detail was taken care of. And a special thank you to Steve, our Maitre d', who kept everything running smoothly on the day. His attentiveness and organization ensured everything stayed on track, so we could enjoy every moment of our special day.

We highly recommend choosing Bourne as your venue – it was the perfect backdrop for the best day of our lives!

Duet W.

Bourne Mansion is one of our favorite places to shoot at. There is nothing that can compare to the historic atmosphere of a 1800s mansion. The absolute grandeur and stunning grounds offer for so many photo opportunities. The outdoor’s gorgeous layout and amazing mansion in the background makes every photo a piece of art. The indoors really transports you to another time. The amazing, classical design; you travel to a 19th century ball with every photo. Here are some of our favorite shots:

Tim M.

We had our wedding at the Bourne Mansion, and it was an absolutely stunning venue. The beautiful outdoor ceremony and the grand ballroom for the reception created the perfect setting for our dream wedding. The staff was incredible, and the food was superb. Everyone raved about the many options during the cocktail hour, making it a highlight of the evening.

Miriam, the director of sales, was fantastic. She answered all our questions and provided excellent recommendations. Throughout the months leading up to the wedding, she consistently responded promptly, helping us feel confident and well-prepared.

Steve was the Maitre D’, and he did an outstanding job ensuring everything ran smoothly and timely throughout the day. He took his responsibilities very seriously and worked hard to ensure we had the perfect night. Steve provided helpful advice and helped us resolve any issues that arose, both big and small.

Overall, the Bourne Mansion exceeded our expectations, and we couldn't have asked for a more perfect wedding venue.

Alexis C.

We want to extend our deepest thanks to the entire Bourne Manion team for creating an unforgettable wedding day. We couldn’t have been happier!

From the moment we first visited Bourne Mansion, each visit was filled with excitement and anticipation. When the big day finally arrived, it truly felt like we were living in a fairytale.

Miriam's guidance throughout the planning process was invaluable. From food selection to seating arrangements, flowers, and all the other details that make for a great wedding, she brought our vision to life with her expertise. Every step of the way, she made the planning process feel easy and stress-free.

Jake was absolutely fantastic. He kept the day running smoothly, made sure Sam and I had time to eat, and ensured our drinks were always full! His attentiveness to our family and guests, gathering anything they might have needed, was above and beyond. Leading up to the wedding, no question was too trivial, no detail too small, and no request too big—thank you for making it all happen.

The Chef, Dominick, and his team created dishes that were nothing short of incredible. As a picky eater, I was put at ease knowing I would have food to enjoy at our wedding. The fact that he tailored the menu to accommodate our guests' allergy needs was deeply appreciated. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the food, the atmosphere, and everything in between.

The entire team at Bourne Mansion helped us shape our wedding vision into a beautiful, unforgettable night. We were so fortunate to have such a perfect day, and the ceremony space was absolutely breathtaking. Our guests spoke so highly of the venue, not only as an event space but as a unique experience. Many of our family and friends mentioned how much they loved exploring the different rooms during the wedding.

We looked at many wedding venues, but nothing compared to Bourne. From top to bottom, we were thoroughly impressed.

Thank you again for giving us an amazing experience and a beautiful wedding day.

Sal M.

How do I give more than 5 stars Thank you for the time of our lives. Miriam and Steve…..the best. Floor staff & bartenders….the best. Ambiance as a 1900’s mansion….the best. Food from start to finish…..the best.
I expected 100% for my daughter’s wedding and I was given just that. From the second my car pulled in to the second I boarded my bus to leave, the BEST. Thank you Lessing for making the day memorable for me & my wife and my 215 guests. THANK YOU.

Amanda R.

This past weekend my husband and I had our wedding there and it was nothing short of flawless! The staff were outstanding. Steve the maitre’d and my bridal attendant Samantha made everything more perfect than I thought. Sam helped with my dress, drinks, and even brought a brush and hair spray for my husband when the wind picked up. Miriam who help book and organize the venue was attentive and incredibly helpful leading up to the wedding. We highly recommend this venue.

Marissa K.

We recently got married here, and I have nothing but great things to say. Miriam is amazing, she goes above and beyond to make sure you're staying on track with your planning. Steve (maitre d) is a true professional. He will ensure that your day runs seamlessly, while making sure bride and groom are first priority. Food is amazing . The venue/grounds speak for themselves.. gorgeous old Hollywood glam feel. I am so happy I chose Bourne Mansion for my wedding. Highly recommend!!

Alex M.

Our wedding on July 13, 2024, was truly unforgettable, and we can’t say enough good things about the day. We searched all over Long Island for a venue that would stand out from the rest, and that search led us to Bourne Mansion. From the moment we booked in October 2023, everything ran smoothly. If you’re a bride who feels the weight of making sure every detail is perfect, you’re in great hands with Miriam and her team. They guide you through every step of the planning process with frequent check-ins, vendor recommendations, and invaluable advice.

When it came time to select our menu, we were blown away by everything at the tasting and had trouble choosing. Miriam's expert guidance helped us make those big decisions with confidence. Steve, our Maitre D, was exceptional—professional, fun, and on top of every detail. He and Nicolette, our bridal attendant, were always nearby to ensure everything went off without a hitch. The food was delicious, the drinks were flowing, and there was never a line at the bar. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the day, and we are so grateful we chose Bourne Mansion as our wedding venue. Highly highly recommend this venue!!